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6 Mistakes to Avoid During the Divorce Process

One of the biggest mistakes individuals make during the divorce process if failing to protect themselves financially. Divorce is filled with emotions and emotions get in the way of navigating the in a manner that is beneficial to one's financial security and ability to move on to a stable life, post-divorce.

Tips for Avoiding Divorce Mistakes

Avoid these mistakes when navigating your divorce to avoid common pitfalls.

Having Unrealistic Financial Expectations

Divorce means splitting one household into two. Two or even one income goes a lot further when supporting one household. Try to stretch the income you have now as an intact family to cover two households and financial belts are going to have to tighten. Expect a decrease in discretionary money and plan ahead so you don’t find yourself in the hole financially.

Don't go into the divorce process until you've worked through the expenses of living on your own after divorce. Have a budget and know exactly how much income you will need to take care of yourself and your children if you have children.

If you are a woman, don't hang your hat on receiving long-term alimony and, even if you do, don't let alimony be your only source of income. Circumstances change and, when or if you are left without that monthly check from your ex, you don't want to be left holding the bag and unable to make the rent.

Refusing to Communicate

It is easy to tell someone to "put aside anger at your spouse," a lot easier to say than actually do. Putting that anger aside and communicating will save you money in the end, though. If you can only communicate via attorneys, you will pay a fee for every communication your attorney sends.

As I said above, you will have two households to support. The less money you give a divorce attorney the more left over to support those two households.

The more civilly you are able to communicate the more smoothly mediation and negotiating a divorce settlement will go. A willingness to communicate with each other is one of the key factors in keeping down the cost of divorce.

Engaging in an Adversarial Divorce

There is nothing divorce attorneys love more than clients who want to do battle in divorce court. The less willing you are to negotiate with your spouse, the more money the divorce attorney will make. Use a mediator, be willing to compromise and don’t let your need to be right cause you to spend years paying divorce attorneys and court costs.

Failing to Understand What "Equitable Distribution" Means

Most are under the impression that equitable distribution means an equal share or 50/50 split of marital assets. Instead of a 50/50 split that would mean each spouse receiving half of the marital assets, equitable distribution looks at the financial situation of each spouse, both before and after the divorce.

If a woman has not worked in decades, has no marketable skills and needs to rebuild her career it would be more equitable for her to be awarded more financially during the divorce.

Forgetting to Take Into Consideration Tax Implications

Every financial decision made during the divorce process has a tax consequence. Who will claim any children as dependence? What is the value of any stock portfolios and capital gains? It pays to know what your settlement will cost you at tax time.

Not dealing with joint finances and accounts.

One of the most common complaints I hear from readers is because they failed to untangle themselves financially from their spouse. It isn’t uncommon for a divorce settlement to state that one spouse is to pay off or refinance an automobile.

What people fail to understand is, if that spouse defies the court order and doesn’t refinance or continue making payments on property in the other spouse’s name there is no legal recourse. You can take an ex back to court for contempt, but all you get is another order that the car be paid off or refinanced.

If a court order didn’t work the first time, it won’t work the second time.

Before or during the divorce process you need to protect yourself by getting your spouse’s name off any joint accounts. If you own a home or hold any joint accounts together make sure that such accounts are separated. If your spouse refuses to make payments, then at least you can’t be held responsible.






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